Finding Herself in Kink: A Tell All Conversation with Aetherius

“I didn’t even realize this part of me was missing… until I found it.”
In this raw and revealing episode, Gwyn sits down with Aetherius—a 35-year-old trans woman who shares her unfiltered journey into kink, gender affirmation, and polyamorous family life.

New to the scene but already deeply rooted, Aetherius opens up about the thrill and healing she’s found in a tight-knit kink group in northern Vermont. We talk about everything from discovering identity through play, to navigating life as a trans woman in tech, to parenting through authenticity and joy.

She lives with her wife. And their boyfriend. She games. She codes. She scenes. And in this episode, she tells it all.

Topics include:
🔹 How kink became a portal to self-discovery
🔹 Living openly as a trans woman in small-town Vermont
🔹 Queer polyamorous family dynamics
🔹 The courage to take up space—in and out of the dungeon

Whether you're in the kink world or just kink-curious, this is one of those episodes that lingers long after the final word.